nic42
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Post by nic42 on Oct 11, 2017 2:42:29 GMT -5
I can't say any more and definitely not better than betty and seoulmate. Thinking about all who have lost things that were dear to them in the fire, and especially momtomany.
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Post by purplepassion on Oct 11, 2017 2:52:05 GMT -5
Dear Momtomany, I have been texting with didilynn and Scorpio for updates about your home and was so sad to hear it had been lost in the fire. I can't imagine all that you are feeling right now, but please know you have so many people who love you who offer their support. My niece lost her home yesterday and eight of my daughter's co-workers have lost their homes as well. It is all so traumatic and devastating. I feel fortunate that as of now, both of my daughter's apartments are still standing, but also know that could change since the fires are not contained. I am heartened by all the news I have heard of people opening up their homes to strangers, driving around picking up stray animals to care for them until they can be reunited with family, restaurants serving free food to evacuees, etc. it seems like in the worst of times, the deep goodness within humankind emerges and shines through. Your love for others always shines through in everything you do. I wish I was there to give you a big hug and look forward to seeing you in London in December and hopefully sooner than that too. Take care. Love, Susan
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Post by AnnAdoresAdam on Oct 11, 2017 3:28:06 GMT -5
Starting the day with tears for the poet of our community....
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Post by marionm on Oct 11, 2017 3:38:25 GMT -5
The people before me have said it all so beautifully...I wish you strength and peace in this turbulent time and the best possible outcome there may be...
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Post by barnowl on Oct 11, 2017 4:09:27 GMT -5
Momtomany, so sorry to hear your devastating news......so sad ......
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Post by betty on Oct 11, 2017 4:13:30 GMT -5
It is with tears and a sad heart I pass on this message from Momtomany: "Gone ... Our family home will now live on in the giving and generous hearts it helped create." Oh no, what a tragedy! Dear momtomany, I'm sitting here, wearing your beautiful bracelet, thinking of you and crying about the loss of all your personal things. And I also thought of Pell-Mel, I hope he's save! I don't know what to say except that I wish you and your dear husband much strength and confidence in these hard times, and I hope that things will soon get better again for you! Sending much love and a big hug to you!
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Post by rpeura on Oct 11, 2017 10:59:57 GMT -5
Momtomany, I don't know what to say except fuck it all. I am devastated for you. After all these years I still have some of your posts: "Almost 40 years ago, my husband and I spent the meager savings we had on a piece of property.
We came out, day after day, to 'tame the land' - cut down scrub oak, fight our way through weeds and ticks and nettles.
Eventually, we built a home which, for a long time, lacked flooring, a full bathroom, and an exit from the front door.
We met the neighbor across the little dirt road, who brought us watermelon and lemonade on a sweltering August day, as DH sat on an oak stump, repairing the chain saw. I looked after our little boy and our errant, mongrel dog. "-------------------------------------------------------------------------- And your post about the swing in the back yard (after your mom passed away): I have this swing outside, on the back hill that frames our bit of heaven.
It is a place of joy, or solitude, or reflection - it's where I can feel like I'm part of the wind.
My darling gave it to me; my Christmas gift many years ago. It's strung between two oaks that, themselves, struggle to make it through every year. The trees are not majestic; they're scrawny and trying to find the sky.
My swing is my favorite place. I find solace there. Peace. My grandson headed towards it when Thanksgiving became too much.
I can see it from my kitchen window. And today my swing 'swang' (is that a word?) alone in the dappled winter light. Ah - maybe it was the wind; but we've had wind before.
Gently.
I want to let you know.
The words of comfort and understanding and love are helping me. This is so new; I cannot imagine being without my mother - my creator.
I'll watch my swing. And the rays of light around it. They speak to me, in ways I never thought I would know.
I think I'll put on my boots and venture out back.
Your loving thoughts help with the first step."------------------------------------------------------------------------------ momtomany, my heart is breaking for you. I can't bear the thought of your swing being gone. Not sure how to do this.... The posts of Momtomany's that Soulmate posted brought tears to my eyes. I have never personally met Momtomany but feel I know her from seeing her in so many videos at Adam's performances over the years. My heart & prayers are with her & her family as they make their way into an uncertain future. Their loved ones will see them through. This is all so heartbreaking for all those who have lost their beloved homes.My thoughts, too. Big hugs
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Post by nannygoat on Oct 11, 2017 19:57:38 GMT -5
Haven't been here for a few days. So surprised to hear about your loss, Momtomany. My condolences go out to you and your family.
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