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Post by 4Ms on Apr 9, 2013 21:31:36 GMT -5
That confirms my theory that Sauli was the one, who didn't want to get married. Adam said in Nov. 2011 : " I'd never considered marriage before," Lambert says. “But now that I am, I can’t do it.”
Actually, I do not think it confirms your theory that Sauli was the one who didn't want to get married. May I have a link to what you are quoting? I believe you misunderstood what Adam said. ETA
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Post by rama on Apr 9, 2013 21:38:20 GMT -5
That confirms my theory that Sauli was the one, who didn't want to get married. Adam said in Nov. 2011 : " I'd never considered marriage before," Lambert says. “But now that I am, I can’t do it.”
Actually, I do not think it confirms your theory that Sauli was the one who didn't want to get married. May I have a link to what you are quoting? I believe you misunderstood what Adam said. I also remember some where that Sauli said he never saw himself getting married. I don't have a link. I think it might have been pre-Adam. |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 9, 2013 21:47:23 GMT -5
2 months before my husband met me, he told his Dad & Step Mom he wasn't even going to consider getting married before age 30. He was 22. We got married at 23!  It's easy to say, "I don't want to get married" before you've met the right person. And, yes, sandymct, I agree that South Florida interview is one of the first times Adam has said an unqualified "yes" |
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Post by bobo on Apr 9, 2013 21:49:47 GMT -5
That confirms my theory that Sauli was the one, who didn't want to get married. Adam said in Nov. 2011 : " I'd never considered marriage before," Lambert says. “But now that I am, I can’t do it.”
Actually, I do not think it confirms your theory that Sauli was the one who didn't want to get married. May I have a link to what you are quoting? I believe you misunderstood what Adam said. ETA
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Post by 4Ms on Apr 9, 2013 21:50:00 GMT -5
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Post by cassie on Apr 9, 2013 21:50:12 GMT -5
This is a great interview where Adam talks about being approached by fans, and asked for a picture. Albiku, if you watch this, I think you will see that he "got" where you were coming from and was happy to take a picture with you. (starts at about 8:25) Please don't second guess yourself and feel guilty about what was a very special interlude in your life. You met Adam, he happily posed for a picture and gave you a sincere hug, and you were totally respectful of his privacy. It was wonderful, and you were wonderful.
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Post by bridgeymah on Apr 9, 2013 21:58:54 GMT -5
Probably my favorite Adam quote of all time:
"Why does everybody think I’m short and an asshole..." from SFGN article.
LOL for hours because so many comments you see are "he's so tall" "he's so nice".
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Post by Q3 on Apr 9, 2013 21:59:49 GMT -5
Is this article from SFGN the first confirmation that we have that Adam is performing at LifeBall and not there in some other capacity? No, Adam posted it briefly on FB. ETA: Well maybe that should be yes, since he deleted that post really quickly. I think that you may be right about Sauli not wanting to get married but I do not take this as Adam wanting to get married. Considering it would only mean thinking about it -- which is more than Sauli ever said. This interview was in November 2011 when the only song from Trespassing that anyone had heard was OOL. The interview it came from was about the upcoming album -- here it is. (Rolling Stone Dec 8 issue comes out in November.)  |
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Post by cassie on Apr 9, 2013 22:00:56 GMT -5
It is very possible that Adam's view on marriage for himself has evolved over time. He has said repeatedly that it was never something he considered before because it wasn't possible. It just wasn't part of his world view. But, things are changing in the world, and things have changed in his personal experience. Perhaps being in a long-term, loving relationship has caused him to realize the importance of that in his personal life, even if it wasn't with Sauli for whatever reason.... because he wants to devote his attention to his career right now, because Sauli didn't see himself ever getting married, because the relationship the two had was wonderful but not the type of relationship that was headed for permanent commitment, or for whatever reason.
Everyone evolves and changes over time--- or I hope we do. We need to keep growing, keep considering our beliefs and values, keep being open to new experiences and new ideas. Adam certainly demonstrates that.
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Post by Craazyforadam on Apr 9, 2013 22:02:54 GMT -5
Albiku, I also think that you really don't need to beat yourself up about all this, but I get the sense that you are doing it anyways no matter how much we try to talk you out of it. One thing you could do if you want to, is write Adam a letter, as a fan telling him how you met him, and everything you want to say to him, but could not or did not in those 30 seconds. You can even send him the photo, because your picture of him and you is a very good one. He will understand and probably appreciate this rather personal letter, rather than just one that asks for autographs only. Tell him where you are from and that you will be front and center, if he every comes to Barcelona, Madrid...or whatever you want to say. This way you get it off your chest and he gets a nice and personal fan letter. Because I can assure you that you have a wonderful and warm writing style and that totally would come through in everything you say. We all are intimidated in meeting him, because we are keenly aware of that one hundred thousand to one problem that exists between fans and their star. We each would like to spend a whole weekend with Adam and tell him hundreds of things, but the reality is we are aware that we are impeding on his private time and so we don't want to take more than just mere seconds and that difference between what is bottled up inside of us and the reality of the situation makes this moment so difficult for us. It has nothing to do with him. He does everything to make us feel so welcome, but yet, it is a very overwhelming and difficult moment to actually meet him, due to that emotion overload. Tbh, because of my fear of that, I have not even attempted yet to meet him. I would not know how to make a real connection work in 15 seconds, so you are further along than I am. Please don't feel like you have to do that now, I am just saying, if you keep beating yourself up and cannot get rid of your bad feeling, then this is your way out.  |
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It's easy to say, "I don't want to get married" before you've met the right person. 
