5.22.12 THE DARK SIDE - Post here if.....

[rama]

I am sad and realize my investment in this is ridiculous but I still feel it. Anyone in my real life would laugh if they knew I was sad about two celebrities. That's why I'm glad to talk about it here. It's the only place I can commiserate with others who understand my sadness. The one thing that does encourage me is that they both seem happy. So if they did take a break it appears to be amicable. I still hope we have misread the situation and everything is fine.

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Feb 13, 2013 22:14:48 GMT -5 rama said:

I am sad and realize my investment in this is ridiculous but I still feel it. Anyone in my real life would laugh if they knew I was sad about two celebrities. That's why I'm glad to talk about it here. It's the only place I can commiserate with others who understand my sadness. The one thing that does encourage me is that they both seem happy. So if they did take a break it appears to be amicable. I still hope we have misread the situation and everything is fine.

Me too!!  Adam and Sauli have always been very very special.  I've never been attached to a celeb couple either.  But I adore them both.  So, yes, I would do cartwheels to see that all is well... (not a pretty sight, but I'd be enthusiastic..lol...).

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I hear you guys. I think Q3 wanted to limit the talk because there is really very little to go on. Speculation on a public forum can cause repercussion to Adam in real life.

 Timeline as I know it.

Adam is at a paid appearance with theater friends

He wants to meet Max Ryder who is a porn star.(who looks a bit like Sauli)

this starts greetings from another twit site CockyBoys where Max works and is picked up by a cray twitter (researching sources took me to some eye opening places )

Pics are taken with lost of people in the club

Said twitter keeps accusing A of cheating and tweets direct to S and A

He keeps getting blocked and opening new sites and becoming more and more aggressive. At one point today twitting every few minutes

Then back in LA we don't see the boys together

I believe those are the only facts we know.

My conclusion? A game of gossip. But.. It has not stopped me from being worried about them. Their story is so romantic and I want the fairy tale.

Looking at photos we do have there doesn't seem to be an unhappy Adam just a busy one.  I would assume the same for Sauli. We don't even know they were not out together, just that there were no pics. Who took the picture of Adam with Raja and friends?

But it really all boils down imho to an evil twitter who has repeated something often enough it has caused problems.

[theosgma]

Feb 13, 2013 23:14:41 GMT -5 @grandduchesspf said:

I hear you guys. I think Q3 wanted to limit the talk because there is really very little to go on. Speculation on a public forum can cause repercussion to Adam in real life.

 Timeline as I know it.

Adam is at a paid appearance with theater friends

He wants to meet Max Ryder who is a porn star.(who looks a bit like Sauli)

this starts greetings from another twit site CockyBoys where Max works and is picked up by a cray twitter (researching sources took me to some eye opening places )

Pics are taken with lost of people in the club

Said twitter keeps accusing A of cheating and tweets direct to S and A

He keeps getting blocked and opening new sites and becoming more and more aggressive. At one point today twitting every few minutes

Then back in LA we don't see the boys together

I believe those are the only facts we know.

My conclusion? A game of gossip. But.. It has not stopped me from being worried about them. Their story is so romantic and I want the fairy tale.

Looking at photos we do have there doesn't seem to be an unhappy Adam just a busy one.  I would assume the same for Sauli. We don't even know they were not out together, just that there were no pics. Who took the picture of Adam with Raja and friends?

But it really all boils down imho to an evil twitter who has repeated something often enough it has caused problems.

It will be interesting to see if there is any Valentine Day cooing.  They have been quite demonstrative about these kinds of things in the past.

[restless]

Feb 13, 2013 21:24:29 GMT -5 stella said:

Feb 13, 2013 17:27:27 GMT -5 restless said:

I don't have many posts to this name, but I have been around Atop for years and had to recreate accounts for various reasons. It is always disconcerting when members are chastised for discussions. I know this comes up every now and then. Obviously the mods have the say, it is their forum, right? I just resent certain peeps that come across so high and mighty calling out how ridiculous we all are in our "angst" and worry. Especially those that don't regularly post or quit the forum and show up just to put us in our place.
Dark side shit here. exxxxxcuuuuuse me.

leenaseyez, I love your post and it took balls to say it here. It is your perspective and has value in a discussion, if permitted.

But how is it of value if we don't know anything? It sounds like prematurely blaming one party to me. I just think speculating about either party's blame sucks. Again because we don't know anything.

good point. value was a poor choice of words. it was my FAILED attempt at supporting another member expressing her feelings. thank you for putting me in my place. i see she has wisely deleted her post. i must remember it is none of our business, we don't know anything and should just stfu.   

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yeah!

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Feb 13, 2013 22:50:16 GMT -5 @vivlite said:

Feb 13, 2013 22:14:48 GMT -5 rama said:

I am sad and realize my investment in this is ridiculous but I still feel it. Anyone in my real life would laugh if they knew I was sad about two celebrities. That's why I'm glad to talk about it here. It's the only place I can commiserate with others who understand my sadness. The one thing that does encourage me is that they both seem happy. So if they did take a break it appears to be amicable. I still hope we have misread the situation and everything is fine.

Me too!!  Adam and Sauli have always been very very special.  I've never been attached to a celeb couple either.  But I adore them both.  So, yes, I would do cartwheels to see that all is well... (not a pretty sight, but I'd be enthusiastic..lol...).

pics of cartwheels please

[leenaseyez]

Feb 14, 2013 1:32:55 GMT -5 restless said:

Feb 13, 2013 21:24:29 GMT -5 stella said:

But how is it of value if we don't know anything? It sounds like prematurely blaming one party to me. I just think speculating about either party's blame sucks. Again because we don't know anything.

good point. value was a poor choice of words. it was my FAILED attempt at supporting another member expressing her feelings. thank you for putting me in my place. i see she has wisely deleted her post. i must remember it is none of our business, we don't know anything and should just stfu.   

Hey!!!

I did not blame anyone, on the contrary, I said I don't believe something like that! That's not why I deleted.  I did it because I don't want to be on the dark  side, this is my happy place, and it was sad and difficult for me to see all anxiety in fandom!!

But I repeat, he IS my role model as a decent person in entertainment industry, and he has made support not only his voice but also his values!

And now hopefully we all can move to light! Me included!

[stardust]

Adam Lambert @adamlambert

Valentine Homies. Love to You ALL! instagr.am/p/Vs_WNRuNA-/

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[scotia]

Yes, leenaseyez...goodbye Dark Side!